1. Say “I Love You” in Their Language
If you’re like most people, you might resort to a rather generalized way of telling the one you love that you actually love them. In other words, saying the words “I love you” can quickly become overused.
Rather than depending on these three words, find a love language that your partner speaks and speak it. Get to the bottom of what makes them tick. Maybe he really enjoys it when you admire how hard he works. Or, perhaps she responds well to your embraces.
Discover a different way to tell your partner that you love them aside from what everyone else will be saying on Valentine’s Day.
2. Try a Brand New Activity Together
As mentioned before, you might be looking for a new way to spice things up in your relationship. Another way to look at this is simply to acknowledge that your relationship needs some freshness to it.
A great way to do this is to try a new venture together. For instance, go eat at a new restaurant or take a class together. Adding a new activity to the relationship menu will undoubtedly freshen things up.
That’s because trying a new activity together brings a couple closer because it’s reinvigorating to your mind. And Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to give it a go simply because it’s a day solely focused on love.
3. Put Your Story to Paper
Reminiscing about the love you share and how your story began absolutely oozes romance. Those special moments are like the glue that helps hold a relationship together.
So, talking about them and recalling those cherished moments can revitalize a typically drab Valentine’s Day. Write these memories down for the one you love. It’s such an intimate way to express yourself that the finished product will likely be treasured forever.
Remember that you’re not bound only to telling the mushy stuff. Be sure to include inside jokes and laughable moments the two of you experienced together.
This fun Valentine’s Day project will help you to focus on what you appreciate about your partner rather than on any imperfections.
4. Hide Sweet Notes for Your Partner to Find
If you don’t have the oomph to write down your entire story, then just focus on a few things you love about your partner. You can jot these sweet, little notes down and hide them for the one you love to find randomly.
After all, Valentine’s Day is simply a day dedicated to celebrating your relationship. A relationship that exists every other day of the year, too. Finding little reminders of the love you share will help to make this holiday more meaningful.
So, leave little notes around the house, in pockets, in the car, on the bathroom mirror, or wherever. It should be just as much fun finding them as it is reading them.
5. Enjoy a Special Dinner Together
Although having dinner with your spouse might seem a little ordinary, remember that it’s all about your approach. Think about how often the two of you actually sit down facing each other with no external distractions.
Probably not often.
This Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to enjoy great food together and really focus on each other’s company. Show the one you love how important they are to you by giving them your undivided attention.
If you’re ready to take your romantic relationship to the next level, then please reach out to me. I’d be happy to help you overcome any obstacles you face in your endeavor for closeness.