Spring Clean Your Relationships

We hear the phrase "spring clean" every year, but what exactly does it mean to spring clean? Sure, we are aware of the literal sense of cleaning, yet there is more to clean than just the house during springtime. What if we were to apply the idea of spring cleaning to more aspects of our life? For instance, our relationships?

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Oliver's Observations

Spring has officially sprung, and that means Mother Nature is buzzing with energy all around us, with loads of transformations and self-awareness. So, since it's my month to pontificate, I believe I will discuss the productive use of energy--more specifically, my type of energy, Impersonal Energy.

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Awakening the Mind, Body, and Soul

With all the hectic elements in today's world, stress and anxiety are frequently showing their nasty faces in our lives. While most of us try to do our best to curb these crippling monsters and keep them at bay, there is a wonderful defense against battling stress and anxiety within the practice of yoga.

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Do You Have a Child Who Seems to Have a Problem Managing Anger?

Perhaps your child tends to lose his/her cool, has tantrums, or reacts to stressors in a manner that seems out of proportion to the trigger. Harvard Medical School estimates that almost two-thirds of American adolescents have had at least one moment of expressing anger through an attack that involved threatening violence, or actual violent behavior.  Uncontrollable anger attacks are much more common than you might think.

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Breathe Easy on the Road and Elsewhere

Recently, I was driving home with my husband very late at night after a family gathering in Los Angeles. I had been "on the go" since early morning and my exhaustion was catching up with me. Anticipating sparse traffic at that late hour and hoping to get home quickly, we were shocked by the sudden traffic jam near Norwalk at 1 am!

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Try the Gottman Framework: For the Clinician Who Ever Wondered, “What was I thinking when I decided I’d do couples’ therapy?!”

 I know what it’s like to sit across from a couple and think, “What in the world can I possibly say that could turn this battleship around?!”  What is more important than helping couples find a safe haven with one another, that secure base with which to arm themselves as they march forward into the future with all its joys and its turbulence? 

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That First Step

Have you ever been somewhere and your pulse began to race and your heart was pounding and you started to sweat and the room seemed to get smaller and you couldn’t breathe and you couldn’t find the way out? 

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Mindfulness and Dating

On a first date, or in the beginning phases of a romantic relationship, we may feel anxious, nervous, agitated, excited, or possibly preoccupied.  How will this meeting go? Will he/she like me or be turned off? Will I like him/her? If I like him/her, will there be a second time? Our mind generates myriads of thoughts and questions.

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Science Says We Are Your Body’s Best Friend

I was informed that my mom wrote about pets being actually good for  your health in her newsletter. Well of course we are! Anybody knows that. But just in case you are a skeptic, I offered to tell you that  there has been real research done on the subject. (I have NO IDEA why  anybody would doubt it and have to “scientifically validate” it, but  here goes)

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My Cool Catcher’s Mitt

It’s been about a year since you’ve heard from me. I’ve been really busy, catching friends as they fly through the clouds to the Other Side! I somehow got ahold of a really soft, cushy (as you can see), vintage catcher’s mitt that was once owned by Jim Hegan who played and coached baseball from the 1930’s to the 1970’s.

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In Love, Light, & Laughter

I wanted to say thanks for all your support during my fierce battle with Bad Fred over the last few months and to tell you that sometimes, as we all know, winning comes at a great cost.  I feel that, together, we managed to slay that Awful Darkness so he won't hurt anybody else, but it did cost me my fleshy suit from which I emerged relatively peacefully on Thursday morning around 11am. 

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